Aries: Love life is aided by Jupiter this month – there will be greater levels of understanding and an appreciation of your differences. If you have been having problems in your marriage, this is a very good time to work with a counsellor. You are more insightful and able to deal rationally with problems, and your partner will also have a pro-active and constructive approach to resolving anything you are grappling with. A family member may have some valuable relationship advice for you, and you will be able to open up to that person with confidence. This is a time when you will need council and another person’s perspective on any issues you are having. This month could mean that a change in your partner’s job status means a move will be in order – even good news or promotion for your partner can mean disruption and some short-term uncertainty in your life. This can put you under pressure and force you to make some decisions that you would have preferred to delay. With new relationships, things will really click this month with romance, and a deeper level of understanding that can take things to the next level. This marks the start of an excellent period for single Aries to meet partners with long-term potential – you may meet new people via work associates or extended family.
Taurus: A very romantic month, which is ideal for new love affairs. You may take a short romantic trip or holiday. The potential for single Taurus to meet new lovers is highest this month, and it can be a whirlwind romance, which offers both affection and a deeper connection. In marriages, you will re-establish the love and excitement in your relationship, and despite the rather up and down nature of things of the last few weeks due to general stress, you are now able to enjoy free-flowing communication and exchange of affection. It is time to fall in love all over again and remember why you fell in love in the first place. It’s not just about the physical or even the mental side of your love; it is the deeper more spiritual side, the chemistry that has been re-awakened. This is a month when you may feel broody and plan to start a family or extend your family. Children can bring great joy and can also be instrumental in bringing you together again.
Gemini: This is the best time of the year for romance. You are very self-expressive and tend to feel good about who you are, and this aids all sexual encounters. You are very attractive right now and have an air about you that is exciting and appealing. Again, as in other aspects of your life, it is time to throw away the old list and requirements for lovers and open your mind to people that you may not have considered before. There is an air of adventure in your romantic life. For couples, this is a wonderful time to enjoy each other once again and to start doing things that you have not tried for ages; get out of the rut and begin to enjoy nightlife and activities together again. Romance this month will have more of the deeper and meaningful spiritual connection that you are craving this year – this goes for new and older relationships. Children can bring you together as a couple, and there will be much to enjoy and be proud of. Your child may be accepted for some prestigious post or role. This is an ideal time to think about starting or extending your family.
Cancer: Love relationships are benefitted this month due to a harmonious atmosphere in the home. Established relationships will fair very well; however, new relationships may suffer as one of you may feel indebted or somehow influenced by the family pressure, and that may place a strain on the budding romance. New relationships where cultural and heritage is similar can have more pluses this month than relationships where there are big gaps in terms of beliefs and background; differences will be magnified this month and will take more energy to get over. Couples who have a strong working relationship and who enjoy family related events and activates will have a very loving and affectionate month. Many couples rely on adventures and travel together to keep the interest up, and in these cases, you may find this month rather boring and restrictive. Another problem this month is perceived hypocritical attitudes toward the respective sets of parents – it may seem that one set of parents is far more demanding and requires more attention or perhaps has too much control. How you deal with your parents and in-laws and issues to do with fairness and time allocated to each can come up.
Leo: September is an excellent time for broaching sensitive issues in the relationship as you can come across in a non-threatening and fluent way. You are able to be sensitive to the needs of your partner and yet firm about matters of importance. You are in a very open frame of mind and are willing to try and meet your partner halfway, which is very helpful. This is a month when problems in relationships can be resolved or at least moved forward. It is also a time to recognise that relationships are dynamic and are works in progress, where the ups and downs should be seen as part of the unfolding of a private drama that can be bittersweet yet incredible beautiful. When the Japanese break a vase, they glue it together and keep it on display as they feel the breaks are what make it unique and even more precious – you should also see your relationship as one when difficulties faced and resolved add to the core value and deepen the pleasure of the union. This plays into the theme of growing through love and evolving in your relationships – relationships that are totally stuck and riddled with stubbornness from both sides will struggle this month and this year. In new relationships, Leo are extremely charming and can make a favourable impression – this is a time when good manners, grace, politeness matter to you, and you will be repelled by any coarse or uncouth behaviour. People will find it easy to relate to and open up to you this month; you are very receptive to emotions and eager to be helpful. Your intelligence and ability to make good conversation will open doors to new love – you may find that you click with someone with similar artistic interests. Love has very much an intellectual side – you are unlikely to be attracted to someone who does not stretch you mentally or does not share your interests. Opposites attract is not the key for Leo this year in love – new romantic partners must be on the same page as you when it comes to likes, mentality, intelligence and a quest for a serious and loving relationship. If lovers just want a passing fling, that will not be for you.
Virgo: You are rather impulsive and passionate in love right now, and when things do not go your way, you may not have the patience to resolve it. You may say something you regret as you can be careless with words right now, perhaps not anticipating how your partner will react to those words. Virgo are looking to take relationships forward right now, you are future orientated, and if you do not see a future or if you partner does not see the same future as you, you may actually want to walk away from the relationship – but you will regret it. This is not a good time to make hasty decisions in any relationship as it will not get you what you want, and it may cost you. You are playful and fun-loving this month, and so the best way to make the most of your relationships is to do fun new activities together – these can be sports, adventure weekends, short breaks or anything that gets you both outdoors. Cosy evenings in doing the same old thing may frustrate Virgos right now, and so it is ideal for you to try new things as a couple to get the passions released in a positive way.
Libra: You are very to the point this month and have a slightly short fuse, and so if anything gets on your wick, you will be quick to point that out. Flare-ups of temper do die down fast, and so this is not a month of giving the silent treatment and subtle hints; you will tell it like it is and right away. Mere discussion can escalate into arguments this month, not always because the issues at stake are important, but because your general irritation and frustration level is high, meaning that it will not take much to make you boil over. You may take things too personally and take offence where none was intended; you may also not want to back down even when the idea you are fighting over is not even a crucial one. Try to take a step back and ask yourself if what you are fighting over is worth it – maybe what you really need is a long hot bubble bath or a gruelling session in the gym just to relax. In fact, it is best to find a way to relax and get rid of all the angst you feel before you take it out on your partner. If your partner is Aries, Capricorn or Sagittarius, they will probably give as good as they get and be happy to forget about it afterwards, but if they are Gemini, Taurus, Scorpio, Leo or Cancer, you may have to eat humble pie for some time as these signs are less forgiving, especially if they feel unfairly wronged. As long as you make sure arguments are constructive and warranted, then this is a great month to clear the air, set boundaries and improve communication – as long as things do not descend into pettiness and needless insult trading.
Scorpio: There may be arguments over money and how to spend it. There can also be problems with ex- lovers/partners over the property you once shared or even rights over the children – make sure you are fighting over things that really matter not just from a perceptive of pride or unwillingness to back down. Pride, in general, can be a barrier to better understanding and cooperation in relationships. Be more willing to be bigger than petty concerns, and take a more global perspective regarding the relationship – what matters and what does not. This month, having separate friends, hobbies and interests that you pursue outside of the relationship is vital. You need space or things can become too intense, and small matters can escalate. Lack of proportion is a problem. This is a month where Scorpio needs time away from the relationship to get a perspective and to get things into proportion. That is why separate pursuits are vital. Relationships with no space can become like a pressure cooker, and so you both need to know when to step away, and you must allow each other that time. Talking is not always helpful in relationships this month as much of what is going on is emotional and psychological, not rational, and so best to let it all blow over and have time out.
Sagittarius: Friendship is vital in love. Love relationships that are based on friendship and the ability to relate to a broad range of issues will thrive. Mutual friends can help strengthen your bond. Relationships based on passion and lacking in shared interests will be more challenging. Platonic relationships can become sexual and sexual relationships can suddenly revert to being platonic – you may find that a ‘friends with benefits’situation works for you. In any event, Sagittarius both married and looking for love want relationships to be about fun, companionship and escapism. Sag need their partner to be a buddy who is supportive and encouraging while not asking too many questions or placing too many demands – which is a why a friend with benefits situation can work. Sag are facing stressful and complex issues in their family, work and also personally, and they need relationships to provide a respite from that and to be a place of free expression and spontaneous affection without onerous demands and complex emotional battles. Thus love and sex are great for couples who are mutually supportive and can allow the other some freedom without questions, demands and guilt trips. This is a challenging month for relationships where you have both become too dependent on each other for company and reassurance – improving your social life as a couple is important and helpful in this case.
Capricorn: Good communication runs both ways, and you need to remember that in March – listen and try to understand; hear the words and the feelings and emotions behind those words. Sometimes, Capricorn focuses on the surface value of the words and not on what is really being said – read between the lines as often the truth is subtle. Your need for sexual fulfilment may be frustrated due to the many hassles and last minute problems that crop up this month. It is not that you don’t feel amorous, but you are impatient, and may thus choose the wrong times to make a move. Your partner may not appreciate being rushed, and it may seem that you do not have time for the finer, more sensual part of lovemaking. You need a certain amount of privacy this month, and if you feel as if your partner is constantly asking what you are doing or watching over your shoulder, you will feel both angry and resentful. Simmering tensions and emotions that bubble under the surface are a problem, which is why better communication can help. You need to keep communication to the point, as when conversations go on too long, they can descend into the trivial. Have clear, concise conversations and do not allow anger to build up – make it clear you need some space.
Aquarius: Tolerance and acceptance are key in love; Aquarians are usually very good when it comes to being tolerant and accepting, but sometimes when you are passionately in love, that can go out the window, and you can become a little dogmatic and bolshy about things. Financial matters can cause tension in relationships as you may disagree over how to spend and or save; what one of you thinks is worthwhile, the other sees as wasteful. In new relationships, it may be the case that you have moved in together and are discussing how to allocate rent and expenses; this will not be straightforward. In marriages, there will also be issues surrounding the joint cheque account, or it may be that due to one of you taking time off work or changing job, the balance of power regarding who brings in more has changed. The amount of money you contribute to the partnership will influence your power or perceived power, but the important thing is not to undervalue the non-money side of the relationship. Do not let money come between you.
Pisces: Relationships are intense and complicated this month. You can experience an unconscious and compulsive attraction to another that baffles yet excites you. In current relationships, you will experience strong reactions and can be turned on and off quickly. Things that annoy you about your partner will be even more annoying than usual, and the things you like will make you melt. You can go from 0-100 in a few moments when it comes to feeling sexual and also regarding getting angry, but you are full of passion. Relationships can open you up and teach you more about yourself this month; in fact, relationships are a forum for transformation and the confrontation of issues that dog you. Power struggles can be a manifestation of the energies this month; they may be subtle. It is all about your partner’s insecurity about his/her role given the changes they can sense in you and your more assertive nature.